Friday Mixtape: April 16, 2010

Friday Mixtape! You're in for a real treat! Here we go!!! The first track is "Chrome Sitar" by Marc Bolan "and" T. Rex...?... isn't Marc Bolan like the main dude in T. Rex?? Why did he have to go all Nicole Scherzinger...or maybe I'm misunderstanding the situation...and yes, I know he's dead, I'm sorry, RIP...sorry for desecrating your name with a Pussycat Dolls comparison. Anyway, suchhhh a great song. We all know T. Rex is da shiz.

Ok, numba two is "Human Nature,"by Madonna is an old favorite I've been listening to for the past couple weeks. Love. One of my fave Madonna jams of all time.

"Gotta Get Mine," by MC Breed featuring 2Pac is the third track and also the third song that was a former flame that I just got reacquainted with this week. Really, really good song. Just very solid.

Track 4, here's a real fucking gem: "A Date with Jack," (with a really random interview at the end) by Castration Squad, of which our BFF Phranc was a member:

Track 5 is"It's Only Rock'n'Roll," covered by Tina Turner and Mick Jagger (Epic Collabroation! Only in leauge with those two with David Bowie -seperately- and Queen/Bowie)...Wait would it still be a cover...because it's originally by the Stones? ...Eh. We'll leave these things to the brain surgeons and rocket scientists.

Track 6: Pixies' "Dig for Fire". Yeah.

Shangri-Las' "Leader of the Pack". Ah, so good. I love dem '60s girl groups. I was reading this book on feminism and women's history, etc, and it had this whole huge section on female musicans and tons of praise for the Shangri-Las, especially ("They wore leather pants and sang about sneaking out and dating boys who rode motorcycles"), and other '60s female artists and it reminded me of my love for them.

Track 8: Lenny Kravitz: "It Ain't Over Till It's Over". If you're like me, you've heard this song a million times but it still warms your heart and you don't have the willpower to turn it off.

Track 9 is "When Worlds Collide," by Powerman 5000. I'm sorry. Truly sorry. I don't know why I did it (isn't one of the dudes like Rob Zombie's brother?).

And your fun final track is..."Celebrity Skin," by Hole! Yay. Epic Fun! I know most of the songs this week were ones that everyone already knows but meh. That's just how it turned out. Enjoy it.

"Losing Weight To Glorify God" ?

This is something that has been on my mind for a while- I saw one of my relatives was in the facebook group, Losing Weight To Glorify God. This relative really not that big. Plus, she was pregnant recently. So naturally, I was like..."?".

I was always praised by people like her, on that side of my family, who were a little bit heavier than me, for being "so thin!", "You look so good!", "You're so pretty!".

These relatives are not "fat" . They are just built a little bigger than the average starlet. They don't eat that much at all. When we are eating together, Raj and I are always the ones stuffing our faces and getting 5 desserts.

This reminds me of the whole Howard Stern/Gabby Sidibe bullshit. So now Howard Stern is a philanthropist and doctor, not a shock-jock. Now it's acceptable to make people feel less than human because of "concern for their health". People who are unhealthy- eating foods with high sugar and fat, not exercising- may or may not become "fat," often it depends on thier genes. Besides, you don't know shit about anyone if you're not their doctor. And some doctors even have biases to believe that bigger people are inherently unhealthy. But by the way the media shows it- if you are big, you show a disgusting neglect for health. I literally had an argument with a friend over whether we should acknowledge and treat "morbidly obese" people like human beings. When this subject came up this friend, she got so angry, she was just filled with hatred and vitriol taught by the media against people who were fat -especially women, and minorities. This is the way the media teaches people to feel about fat people. At best, pity. At worst, hate and disgust.

I remember seeing "Super Size Me" a few years back, I liked the parts that tackled the actual issue- the corporations that promote this unhealthy eating and how obesity is a class issue: cheap foods are the most unhealthy, no time or money to excersize, etc.- but I could have done without the montages of people who were not supermodels, the jokes and all around insentitivity about fat people, and that guy who said something like... "people harass smokers all the time- it's wrong!- when will it be OK to harass fat people?" (if you have a name or corrected quote for me, it would be appreciated). It's like, dumbass, it's been happening for years. Plus, that movie used Queen's "Fat Bottomed Girls" and made it into a negative. Those Bitches. Freddie said that being a fatty is good. So basically, who are you to challenge that? But obviously, everyone should be comfortable and happy with the body they have. Because we've seen that in different cultures and times, women desperately tried and were forced to be bigger to please their husbands. But Freddie liked these fat bottomed girls because they were different from the norm, the accepted idea of beauty.

That side of the family are also conservative Christians. I wondered if there were more of these groups that were for Christian women to lose weight, the first one I found was Live Well! A Biblical Approach to Losing Weight & Feeling Great, a group dedicated to Christian women losing weight and "finding their worth in the eyes of our Father". It also included a link to a site, a page on Christian Woman Online, all about, again, losing weight, looking good and measuring/posing with apples and pears (?).

Also, This:

.....? Ooh, you're sooo much healthier now. And closer to God! WTF! That's the worst before and after picture ever.

Again, the focus is on how one looks and not their actual health. I'll admit, I am really, really unhealthy, all I eat is junk food. And I don't exercise. I'm serious. But because, for some reason, I still (mostly) fit into the weight range women are supposed to be, so no one confronts me about it or treats differently me. OK, my mother does from time to time because she's afraid I will be fat. (Whatever- family joke.)

This is something I've seen in the Christian community as a feminist, we obviously know a lot about the radical Christian right, that calls feminists "feminazis," but I have never seen true Chrisitianity as against feminism. But one of my problems with Christianity, as with most other belief systems, even the supposedly forward-thinking atheist movement, that obviously it can be sexist (or racist, homophobic, etc.), but I think even just that it doesn't help people deal with these modern issues and they don't explicitly help us not fall into the traps of our modern society. Obviously, religion is good and mostly encourages positive behavior. My personal struggle with religion is that if I am to consider myself religious, I am supposed to basically accept that belief system as the only thing that guides my life. I had to struggle with this, because I felt weird about certain things in our culture, but religion didn't really have anything to say about it. Or nothing specific. I just want people to realize that even if you do associate with a certain belief system, you still need a mechanism to understand modern culture...Feminism! You go, Feminism!

Plus, feminism is not anti-religion, there are plenty of Islamic feminists out there (I like supporting my fellow bloggers),there are Christian feminists out there- Christian Feminist for one and feminists of all different belief systems. Feminism is just against religions/belief systems when they lie down to the patriarchy and societal norms and injustices. So, I just do not like this sexist body-hate that goes on in the name of Christianity.

This reminds me of this Bitch Alert song, "God Doesn't Like Me"

(Ew. Feet. That say "war". Still. Ew...I have an anti-foot fetish.)

Here are the lyrics:

God doesn't like me cuz i look bad
Doesn't like me cuz i look bad
Doesn't like me cuz i'm bad

God doesn't like me cuz i look bad
Doesn't like me cuz i look bad
Cuz i'm ugly cuz i'm bad

No she doesn't like me cuz i spit
Doesn't like me cuz i don't pray
Doesn't like me cuz i'm a gay

No she doesn't like me cuz i swear
Doesn't like me cuz i don't care
Doesn't like me cuz i'm a whore!

God doesn't like me cuz i'm bad
Nobody wants the bad
God only likes the good girls

God doesn't like me cuz i'm bad
Doesn't like me cuz i'm mad
God only likes the good girls, good girls

Wow. I really did not mean for this to be an anti-religion diatribe. My bad.

Killing Us Softly 4!!

OMG! Killing Us Softly 4 is coming out this spring! Ah!! Here's the trailer:

I remember when I first met Jean, I was first becomming interested in feminism and checking out library books on the subject and I came across her book, Can't Buy My Love: How Advertising Changes the Way We Think and Feel, I didn't even know it was a feminist book, I just saw it and I thought, "damn! I'd like to learn all those freaky voodoo tricks they do to brainwash us!". Anyway, I read it and it blew my mind! Maybe I should post a summary for all those who haven't read it, but eh, basically you know, weird Jedi mind tricks, they define beauty: be perfect, skinny, etc and they define normality. But there's a lot of crazy shit too, like using pictures of dead or injured women and women who can't or won't speak and it gets a subliminal as just like just that Gap ad with the woman pulling the turtleneck over her mouth! So crazy! You should definitely read it! Jean Kilbourne was like one of the first people to like see that advertising was actually a harmful phenomenon that actually had an effect of people. She's so fucking cool.

I can't wait to watch the free full-length preview! EEEE!!! So excited!

I'm a feminism geek.

Lighten Up Ladies!

Oldie but goodie! We were discussing our lust for ukuleles and this came to mind.